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Shades of Darkness, Shades of Grace
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Wednesday, 30 April 2008
Reviewed By Stuart Nachbar

Catherine Johnson’s Shades of Darkness, Shades of Grace is a story of a close Minnesota family thrown in turmoil over a poor marital decision; its consequences place them in a chain of financial, legal and moral struggles that go on for five long years. Johnson wrote Shades based on true events in her own family and reports they were toned down to make the story more believable to her readers. But Shades had more than enough compelling twists to keep me interested. I don’t want to know the true stories.

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Shades of Darkenss, Shades of Grace
Paul Pierson, partner with his brother Jack and his sister Kay in his family’s real estate business, is a widow who becomes attracted to Pamela Schaeffer, a beautiful 31 year old woman with a dark past. At the beginning of Shades, Paul marries Pamela, and the relationship heads downhill from there as Pamela is everything no man wants their wife to be and no woman would want their husband to be: abusive, rude, greedy, selfish and a philanderer. Even a divorce doesn’t stop Pamela from digging her claws into the Pierson’s family fortune and setting up Paul for a hard-thudding fall. And Pamela wins far more than she loses throughout the story.

Johnson, a former journalist and corporate communications professional narrates Shades from the viewpoint of Kay, loving, but frustrated by Paul’s alcohol addiction and lapses in character. She also becomes a surrogate mother to Kaitlin, Paul and Pamela’s only offspring from their ill-fated marriage. Kay is married to a minister, Tim, who is the only one in the story who sees any good in Pamela, and this frustrates Kay even more. Kay’s parents try to hold their composure throughout the story, as does Jack, but Kay is the only one who brings the necessary fight to expose Pamela for the crooked gold digger she is.

I come from a blended family, though thankfully not one broken by marriage like the Piersons, and it’s mentally challenging to welcome new blood into a lifestyle that’s become settled. It can take several years to put the differences between two families aside and become one. From personal experience, you learn to forgive, but you never forget your differences. And you can even find common ground.
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Stomp the Elephant in the Office
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Wednesday, 30 April 2008

The Virtual Book Review Network is pleased to interview Steven Vannoy and Craig Ross, authors of Stomp the Elephant in the Office


If the atmosphere in your office is so toxic it feels like a 1,000 pound elephant has taken up residence, know this: you can evict that elephant, get more accomplished and be excited about your job once more. All the steps and strategies to permanently banish the elephant in the workplace – the poor behaviors, attitudes and dysfunctional actions that stop people from getting things done – are outlined in Stomp the Elephant in the Office.

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Stomp the Elephant in the Office
Steven Vannoy, author, speaker and trainer, founded Pathways to Leadership, Inc. in 1992 with a vision to build resilient work cultures, more productive teams, and a higher quality of life for all.

Craig Ross is President of Pathways to Leadership, Inc. and leads the development of Pathways programs and facilitates internationally. His background in education and coaching lends itself to his responsibilities in program development and facilitator training.

LAUREN SMITH: What inspired you to take what you do at Pathways to Leadership and turn it into a book?

The inspiration for the title came from our client-partners. There’s a myth, Lauren, that work has to be a drag; that we have to continuously search for methods to motivate uninspired employees; that results can only improve incrementally. It doesn’t have to be that way! Yet people, leaders at every level, have accepted it as the norm. That’s the elephant: toxic attitudes, poor behaviors – in other words, culture – that everyone is aware of but no one is doing anything about.
Proof that few people are doing anything about it: 66% of corporate strategies are never executed (Ernst and Young); 72% of the work force is disengaged (Gallup). In nearly 85 percent of companies, employees’ morale sharply declines after their first six months, and continues to deteriorate in the years that follow (Sirota, Mischkind and Meltzer). We could go on. There’s a growing band of leaders who are not buying into the myth anymore. They’re using the tools we talk about in the book to stomp the elephant and change how work is getting done. And in the process, they’re changing the lives of those around them.

LAUREN SMITH: Are dysfunctional workplace cultures a bigger problem now as compared to past decades? If so, why?

You could say they are a bigger problem now – and it’s primarily because we as a society are so much more “aware” than we used to be. One person shared, “My father said he used to go to work and he had to ‘hang up his human-ness’ as he went into the office. And then he’d put his ‘human-ness’ back on when he left.”

Many people weren’t even aware that they should, could – and were entitled to – enjoy their job.

So dysfunctional workplaces are a bigger problem now because people want more. They want better. And the few organizations that figure out how to stomp the elephant and deliver that are winning.
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The 4 Hour Work Week
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Tuesday, 17 July 2007

The 4-Hour Work Week  by Timothy Ferriss


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The 4 Hour Work Week
As I read The 4-Hour Work Week it occurred to me that while this book clearly isn’t written for everyone, there are pearls in this for most every reader.  

The 4-Hour Work Week starts off with a look into the author’s journey. Timothy Ferris wasn’t born with this knowledge, he learned the hard way. By working the kind of hours we all work (and sometimes more) and by making the kinds of mistakes we’ve all made (and sometimes worse). The author has a very conversational way of telling his story and lending his advice which makes this book a quick read and easy to absorb.  

As I read through this I tried to find elements of it that I could incorporate into my own life. I must admit though, when I first started reading this book I wasn’t expecting to be coached into only working four hours, I figured this book would take a similar curve that most in this genre do: cut back on your work, take more time off, be more organized. I was surprised to find that there was very little of this lecture, instead the book offered a fairly thorough look at setting up a business that is self-sufficient to a large extent.  

The 4-Hour Work Week explores the idea that you can set up a business that almost “runs itself” the part that  needs running can be handled by company staff (other than yourself). The author offers a curious insight into hiring workers in India and offers solid tips for finding and hiring someone overseas. Timothy also looks at the types of businesses a person can start and while the recommendation of borrowing content, or to be more precise finding content that exists and rewriting it to suit your needs is a bit disconcerting much of the advice was helpful.  

This reviewer has no desire to only work four hours a week. Call me crazy but I have never had a burning urge to dive for buried treasure, run with the bulls or learn exotic dances. I love my job and my work is not work, it’s a hobby. Isn’t that how it should be?  
 
Take this book with a grain of salt. It’s helpful, insightful but I don’t see a lot of people implementing the extensive strategies in order to live an exotic playboy lifestyle. 
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Wednesday, 11 April 2007

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