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Wednesday, 30 April 2008

The Virtual Book Review Network is pleased to interview Steven Vannoy and Craig Ross, authors of Stomp the Elephant in the Office


If the atmosphere in your office is so toxic it feels like a 1,000 pound elephant has taken up residence, know this: you can evict that elephant, get more accomplished and be excited about your job once more. All the steps and strategies to permanently banish the elephant in the workplace – the poor behaviors, attitudes and dysfunctional actions that stop people from getting things done – are outlined in Stomp the Elephant in the Office.

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Steven Vannoy, author, speaker and trainer, founded Pathways to Leadership, Inc. in 1992 with a vision to build resilient work cultures, more productive teams, and a higher quality of life for all.

Craig Ross is President of Pathways to Leadership, Inc. and leads the development of Pathways programs and facilitates internationally. His background in education and coaching lends itself to his responsibilities in program development and facilitator training.

LAUREN SMITH: What inspired you to take what you do at Pathways to Leadership and turn it into a book?

The inspiration for the title came from our client-partners. There’s a myth, Lauren, that work has to be a drag; that we have to continuously search for methods to motivate uninspired employees; that results can only improve incrementally. It doesn’t have to be that way! Yet people, leaders at every level, have accepted it as the norm. That’s the elephant: toxic attitudes, poor behaviors – in other words, culture – that everyone is aware of but no one is doing anything about.
Proof that few people are doing anything about it: 66% of corporate strategies are never executed (Ernst and Young); 72% of the work force is disengaged (Gallup). In nearly 85 percent of companies, employees’ morale sharply declines after their first six months, and continues to deteriorate in the years that follow (Sirota, Mischkind and Meltzer). We could go on. There’s a growing band of leaders who are not buying into the myth anymore. They’re using the tools we talk about in the book to stomp the elephant and change how work is getting done. And in the process, they’re changing the lives of those around them.

LAUREN SMITH: Are dysfunctional workplace cultures a bigger problem now as compared to past decades? If so, why?

You could say they are a bigger problem now – and it’s primarily because we as a society are so much more “aware” than we used to be. One person shared, “My father said he used to go to work and he had to ‘hang up his human-ness’ as he went into the office. And then he’d put his ‘human-ness’ back on when he left.”

Many people weren’t even aware that they should, could – and were entitled to – enjoy their job.

So dysfunctional workplaces are a bigger problem now because people want more. They want better. And the few organizations that figure out how to stomp the elephant and deliver that are winning.
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Friday, 01 February 2008

 Interviewing author Erik Quisling

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Lauren Smith: What inspired you to create a work of fiction? 

Erik Quisling:  I initially came up with the idea for Fables from the Mud shortly after I graduated college.  In the course of my soul searching and trying to figure out my place in the world, I was struck with the idea of a clam who was trying to do the exact same thing. For some reason it struck me as extremely amusing.  This is how The Angry Clam, the first fable in my book, was born. 

Lauren Smith: Do you see Fables From the Mud as a satire, cultural commentary or something more? 

Erik Quisling:  Fables From The Mud is about three little creatures – a clam, an ant, and a worm – all of whom are struggling with very human problems.  The stories are satirical but in many ways are simply a cultural commentary on the human obsession with finding meaning in the world.  All in all, they are designed to be amusing and to get you to see somewhat the absurdity of taking life too seriously. 

Lauren Smith: How did you develop each of the fables?

Erik Quisling:  Each fable was born from its own separate bout of inspiration. In each case, it was a single line of text that came to me that was like lighting a fuse that set the story on its course.  Once the fuse was lit, the stories pretty much wrote themselves – I simply had to go back and edit them a little bit.

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Being a Man in a Woman's World PDF Print E-mail
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Wednesday, 15 August 2007
Talking with Dr. Dennis W. Neder...
 
Lauren Smith:   Why did you write this book?

Dr. Dennis W. Neder:  I wrote these books mostly out of frustration. I was suffering with my own dating life over 20 years before the first book was written and realized that there had to be an answer as to why. So, I began really researching it on every level I could. As the light bulbs starting going on and I got better and better at all the rules of dating and relationships, I realized that other men were in the same boat as I was. That's when the first book was written.
 
Lauren Smith:   When you say it's time for men to be what women want, what do you mean by this?

Dr. Dennis W. Neder:  There was a time about 30 years ago when gender rolls were pretty clearly defined. Today, women are getting all sorts of help with definitions whereas men have almost none. It almost seems like an all-out assault against men! Men today have no roll models. More important, men don't know what their place should be in a relationship. Thus, they tend to sit back and do nothing. In the more than 20,000 letters I've answered for readers over the past few years, half of those are from women. The #1 issue that I see from women is simply this: their men are not active and involved in the relationship.
 
What I'm now doing is teaching men exactly what it is that women want - and expect. I'm teaching men how to be better partners. Certainly that benefits men, but even more so, women.
 
Lauren Smith:   Is the old cliché true or do you think men can really change?

Dr. Dennis W. Neder:  I think men are all about change. Men are seeking answers. The problem is that the relationship industry is dominated by women. Women are great at advising women on relationship-roll issues, but frankly, lousy with men. Men hear things like "...women want sensitive men..." and they react by trying to become these sensitive guys. They hear "...just be yourself..." and they try that. Men are very ready to change if only they have a road map to follow that actually works. My "map" has been proven over and over again all over the world.
 
Lauren Smith:   How can your book help men and women attain better relationships?

Dr. Dennis W. Neder:  I talk about a lot of different issues in my books, but as my discussion group says, this isn't simply about technique, it's about lifestyle. They have adopted the term "BAM lifestyle" ("Being a Man") to describe this philosophy. Time and again, I get letters from people that tell me how much they have grown and how much benefit they've received from this information.
 
Lauren Smith:   With all the books on male/female relationships out there, what makes your different?

Dr. Dennis W. Neder:  First that it's from a man's perspective. As I already mentioned, the vast majority of information on relationships is presented from the female perspective. That's not particularly bad, but in fact, it's often not accurate! I see articles about things like "What he really wants in bed" or "Why he won't talk to you", etc. and read them all. I can't believe what's being expressed out there! Most of these are written by women and I; and many of my male readers, just roll our eyes wondering of these women have ever even talked to a man about any of this.
 
Lauren Smith:   On your web site you mention that when you Google "men's resources" you find 10 million, when you do the same for women you find 49 million. Do you think men have been shortchanged or do you think there has never been a need because (it would seem) no one from the male gender was asking for help?

Dr. Dennis W. Neder:  Absolutely. This happens from two fronts: first, there is a general belief that men have been in control for so long and its women that need help to "balance the scales." Many are the times that I've found women actually giving men advice (about women of course) that is just plain wrong! When I've later asked them why they did this, they state that they're just trying to help women. The other side of the answer is that they're trying to handicap men! This sort of thing comes from a very mistaken belief that women are somehow oppressed by men and thus, these women feel justified.
 
The other front is that men are notoriously bad about asking for help. We are barraged with the idea that we should just "fight through" our problems. Frankly, that's pretty inefficient, and leads to trouble not only for men, but for women too. I carried this very belief for many years which is why I worked so hard getting my own "relationship-teeth" kicked in, in order to learn how things really worked. Of course there were almost no reliable sources to get this information from at the time - and there continues to be a lack today as well.
 
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Tuesday, 31 July 2007

Today's Interview is with Peter Davies

war and military fiction
Scatterlings of Africa
author of Scatterlings of Africa

ISBN: 0955440904
Format: Paperback, 344pp

Publisher: Literally Publishing Limite 

 

 

 

Penny Sansevieri:       Hello and welcome to the Fascinating Authors Radio Show.  I’m here today with author, Peter Davies who is calling into the show from the UK.  Peter, welcome to the call --

 

Peter Davies:              Penny, thank you very much.  It’s nice to be talking to you.

 

Penny Sansevieri:       Peter, the title of your book is “Scatterlings of Africa.”  Is this a story about war?

 

Peter Davies:              Penny, no it’s not.  It’s not a book about war, rather I tried to tell the story of individuals who actually caught up in the war.  So, when you read it you get right inside each character’s head to see and to feel what it was like for them, soldiers, terrorists, civilians, man, and woman.  If you let me quote one reviewer, Tammy Brady of Calgary in Canada --

 

Penny Sansevieri:       Sure --

 

Peter Davies:              She said, “Love, romance, obsession, hate, evil and suspense are all elements of Peter Davies’ superbly written novel, “Scatterlings of Africa.”  The author has carefully crafted his characters and scenes to allow his readers to know and care about them and in doing so draw his audience to understand his message about the cruelty and many times unjust nature of war.”  And I have to say Penny that that sums up better than I could what I wanted to do.

 

Penny Sansevieri:       That’s really incredible.  Now, what do you, what type of research went into this book, Peter?  Have you, did you, have you been to Africa?  Did you go there specifically to research this book?

 

Peter Davies:              Oh, gosh.  I didn’t need to go there to research it.  I actually lived there and I fought in that war back in the 1970’s.  So, I experienced a lot of what I wrote about, although of course, it’s not a true story.  It is truly fiction --

 

Penny Sansevieri:       Right

 

Peter Davies:              That I know quite well, about what happened there.

 

Penny Sansevieri:       Well, how long were you over there and how long ago was it?

 

Peter Davies:              Well, gosh.  As I said, the war actually took place in the 1970’s.  But I was actually born there and brought up there.  I only left Africa about 20 years ago.  And I lived in Zimbabwe, which is where this, where my story is set about 50 years ago.

 

Penny Sansevieri:       What do you hope that your readers get out of “Scatterlings of Africa?”

 

Peter Davies:              Gosh, I would, the most important thing for me is the reader should enjoy my book.  One critic said its part action and adventure and part love story.  And that’s true.  “Scatterlings of Africa” is a work of fiction and I wrote it to entertain people.  But on top of that, Penny, I also hope that readers might learn something because there’s, a lot of people uninformed about Africa, especially Rhodesia, the place is now called “Zimbabwe.”  My book as I just said is based on what happened during the 1970’s when Rhodesia was still known as the “bread basket” of Africa.  Of course, people might ask how come now in July 2007 the people there are on the brink of starvation and they are.  The country has the worst standard of life in the world.  Women there have a life expectancy of only 54 years and men 57.  Now just compare that with the USA where life expectancy on average is just under 70 years.  It must be awful to live under conditions like that.  And of course, what is happening out there now, all the pain and suffering of the millions and there are millions of people who are on the brink of starvation, millions more have fled the country.  It can partly be attributed to miscalculations and mistakes that were made by western politicians and the media during the 1960’s and the 1970’s. 

 

                                    And you know, Penny, it just makes me think it may be a little bit, like what’s happening in Iraq today.  You know the media and western governments insist on trying to impose western style government on people all over the world.  It’s as if democracy was the only right thing to do.  But you know, Penny, I don’t think that just democracy works in all places, all over the world.  You know, people may not just be ready for it sometimes.

 

Penny Sansevieri:       Right.  Well, I think you’re absolutely right, and we do spend a lot of time focusing on Iraq.  But there’s so much heartbreak going on in Africa. 

 

Peter Davies:              Especially in Africa.  You know, I mean I can just, I can stream off a list of things at, Darfur is suffering dreadfully.  There’s starvation, there’s murder, there’s wars going on all over Africa.  It’s not good.

 

Penny Sansevieri:       No.  And it’s not good.  Do you think there’s a solution?

 

Peter Davies:              Gosh, that’s a really tough one.  I just think that we have to hope that slowly but surely, people in Africa will find their own way of governing their selves and that it will work.  But I fear it’s going to be a very, very long time.  You know the real problem is that countries were created across lines of different cultures.  Every, you know in the west we all think of Black people as all being one race of people. 

 

Penny Sansevieri:       Sure.

 

Peter Davies:              But they’re not, you know.  There are so many differences again, going back to Iraq.  We all think they’re just Iraqis.  Well, they’re not.  They’re different types of religions.  Well, in Africa, there are different tribal groups and they come from a very different culture and what happened was, you know countries were formed with different groups of people inside them.  And they don’t get on well together and they will fight amongst each other or the one will seek to dominate the other, just like what’s happening in Iraq today.

 

Penny Sansevieri:       Right.

 

Peter Davies:              It’s happening in Africa all day, every day too. 

 

Penny Sansevieri:       And it’s been happening a lot longer or possibly even a lot more extreme.

 

Peter Davies:              It certainly has been in Africa, must more so.  I mean in Africa millions upon millions of people have died since the 1950’s when this whole thing began, immediately after the last war, World War that is.  So, gosh and I just hope that the same sort of thing doesn’t happen in the Middle East really with ongoing constant wars there too.

 

Penny Sansevieri:       Do you think there’s any resolution for this other than not imposing our western civilization principles on them?  Do you think there’s anything that can be done?

 

Peter Davies:              Well, I think the only thing that can be, that can happen now, Penny, is for them to sort it out themselves.  And it’s not gonna be nice watching that happen because they’re going to kill each other.  And they’re going to fight amongst each other.  And lots and lots of people are going to suffer.  But I don’t think we’re helping things by being there and trying to impose our ways upon them.  We may be able to help by being there and just helping them form a government, whichever side wins.  But, there’s going to be fighting for years and years and years.

 

Penny Sansevieri:       Well, and it’s really a shame because it is such a beautiful country.  And on your website, peterdaviesbooks.com you have some pictures and quite a bit of information, not just on your book but on Africa because it really is a beautiful country. 

 

Peter Davies:              Penny, you’re so right, certainly the part of the continent that I know, which is sort of south of the equator.  It’s a huge continent we’re talking about here.  But the pictures that, if you look at my website the pictures you will see come from a very lovely country, very dry, but very lovely country just south of Zimbabwe which is itself very peaceful and prosperous at the moment.  And that’s got to be good news.  It’s called Botswana and they have a wonderful game area there with all sorts of wildlife, called the Delta.  This is a huge river that flows into the desert and dissipates.  It’s one of the few rivers that, doesn’t flow into a lake or the sea.  And it just becomes, well swamp really.  And it is just crawling with game, free game of every kind.  It’s really worth the visit.  And it’s peaceful there.  It’s not warring.  Its people are not dying of starvation as is happening in Zimbabwe.  It’s much more peaceful.  And then right next door to that is South Africa which, although there’s a lot of crime there, it is a stunningly beautiful country, huge country as well.  And really, worth people visiting I would say.

 

Penny Sansevieri:       What inspired you to write “Scatterlings of Africa?”  And tell us a little bit, about how you came about on the title.

 

Peter Davies:              Ah well, first of all, how did I come about the title?  There’s a great song called “Scatterlings of Africa.”  It’s not about my book and it’s not about the era even that my book is set in.  But “Scatterlings of Africa” actually refers to the fact or at least the theory that all human life began in the Rift Valley in Africa.  And with each and every one of us living all over the world, all humans come from that place and that makes all of us scatterlings of Africa, which is rather quaint.  It’s a great song too.  It’s got a real African beat to it, which I love.  And that I just say that the words “scatterlings of Africa” also appealed to me, and why I chose them for the title of my book, is because somehow I feel like a scatterling of Africa.  I was born and raised there.  And I’ve really become an exile.  I’ve had to leave the continent of my birth because it’s not pleasant and particularly in the country that I began in --

 

Penny Sansevieri:       Right --

 

Peter Davies:              And so I feel that I’m a scatterling of Africa and that’s really, what the story is about.  About what happened there in Rhodesia as it was in those days and Zimbabwe as it is today and that, there are many of us now, who are scatterlings of Africa in the first degree rather than in the second degree like the rest of the world.

 

Penny Sansevieri:       And do you have any hopes to do future books?

 

Peter Davies:              Penny, yes I do.  In fact, I’m working on another book right now, which is only partly set in Africa.  It actually begins here in London, England.  And it will move into Africa as time goes by, but I better not say anymore about that because it isn’t finished yet.  I’m still working on it. 

 

Penny Sansevieri:       If you could pick out any one at all to read and offer some comments on your book, who would you pick and why?

 

Peter Davies:              Oh, Penny, you know I especially aspire to approval and hope for approval from other authors.  And actually, I must say that I’m very grateful that my book has been rated by the American Authors Association as, and I quote, “A compelling novel that read like non-fiction.”  It’s also been praised by a British journalist and author who specializes in Africa.  In fact, wrote a wonderful article on Darfur some time ago.  But, from my own genre of adventure, thriller books I particularly admire Bernard Cornwell and Wilbur Smith and others who are considered to be masters of the art.  And these are among the authors that I hope might also read and comment on “Scatterlings of Africa” one day, Penny.

 

Penny Sansevieri:       That’s wonderful.  Peter thank you so much for being no the call.  I want to give away, give out your website again, which is peterdaviesbooks.com.  And it’s a great.  It’s a wealth of information both, on you, the book, and the beautiful country, beautiful and tragic country of Africa.  Peter, thank you so much for being on the show, I’ve really enjoyed our time together today.

 

Peter Davies:              Penny, it’s been my pleasure.  Thank you so much, too.

 

Penny Sansevieri:       I wish you great success with your future books as well --

 

Peter Davies:              Wonderful.  Thank you, Penny --

 

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